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When is the best time to have sex with ur boyfriend?

hii !! Im 17 years old and i have a boyfriend of my same age . Well we have just 2 months being together but i feel that i love him a lot. I had had boyfriends before but i have never feel this . I feel like i want to habe sex with him but the problem is : what will think him about me? That i want to have sex with him . Also i have watched a lot of porn and i consider myself like an expert in that. So at the moment that we will do it he will think that im so nausty :( and i just dont want that . So i have to wait or do it when i feel is the right moment ?
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@ specialmom, u re soo right......
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Ahh, young teenage love.  I think a couple should begin having sex when they could handle the consequences of it like a baby.  As in if a couple are established adults that could provide for a child and adequately care for the child.  Otherwise, having sex run risks as all birth control has a fail rate.  It also is like giving away a piece of yourself.  2 months isn't that long to really know someone.  

You sound like your hormones may be a little out of control.  Real love making is not like porn.  Porn is actors, faking.  Most are high and often live lives that would make you very sad if you knew the truth.  It's a sad business, porn.  There also isn't a lot of respect for women in porn and that is worrisome that you are a self professed expert in it.  I'm a little concerned about you sweetie.

If you do decide to have sex, please use reliable birth control  Go to Planned Parenthood and begin taking the pill or at the very least, use condoms.  Each and every time.  

But often,  sex breaks a young girls heart.  You give yourself away and when the guy you are with and you break up, you can never get that back.  So many young girls are let down by this.

good luck, This is your life, you're writing the story of how you want it to go.  
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