first time

[ai_liz_berth]

hye,am 22 years old and i just got married..as any other married couple i want to have baby my own..but,since its my first time make love..i was wonderin, why is the sperm of my husband dripping out my vag after he ejaculate? and one more ques ,there this one time after we had sex,.i felt a bit hurt or pain(not too bad just pain) around my ovum area(i assume its ovum course its near my vag and my kidney)..

[ai_liz_berth]

thanx for the explaination to both of you, I sure needs much help in da future and I'd be remember to ask again..hehe, thank you

[Babygurly22]

Haha im sorry i have to laugh at  AnnieBrookes analogy of the sperm and your vagina. I agree with her completely n shes completely right, ive just never heard anybody describe it as a culdesac or a bus lol. I do know the pain ur going theough though. When i was on birth control i had a lot of pain during sex n it was near my ovaries so i do know how that feels n im very sorry for that. Good luck n keep us posted on any changes or doctors visits and im here if u need to talk

[AnnieBrooke]

The semen comes back out because the vagina is a cul-de-sac, it has no outlet but to drain back out the opening of the vagina.  Some of the sperm in the semen (a whole lot of them) will swim upstream and find the opening of your uterus (your cervix) but it does not accommodate a tablespoon of semen.  The semen is just the bus that the sperm passengers take to the station, where they get off and start swimming.

The pain if it is in your ovary can be due to ovulation, or to bruising from the end of the penis.  The ovaries are pretty sensitive to being clunked, just the same way testicles are.  Because they are tucked inside the abdomen, you usually don't feel it.  But the end of a man's penis can bonk them.