is it me or my boyfriend

[HelpPlease17]

i have clitoris smegma, yellow discharge,swollen, red and painful vagina lips and it hurts to touch ,wipe.washing doesn't help ,sex is impossible it goes away after a few days but comes back the day after sex i being with my bf for a year and i cant put up with it whats wrong ?

[HelpPlease17]

i was checked before we got together because my last bf cheated on me it was all fine very uncomfortable experience but iv no choice now to painful i will have to go to the doctors no matter how unpleasant it is, I'll let everyone know the diagnosis and how to treat it for anyone else that might be going through the internet looking for help
Thanks
specialmom and the thatquitegirl

[thatquietgirl]

Have you both been tested for STIs?  Have you been tested for any sort of vaginal infection?  If the answer to either is no, I'd say start there.  Either way, I'd really strongly suggest seeing a doctor.

[HelpPlease17]

hi ,i haven't gone to the doctor i no i should but im slightly scared, i was hoping someone would know what's wrong or had the same symptoms as me before and knew what to do,i got it once r twice before him i just put it down to thrush but this is too often and too painful,i want to stay with my bf but its frustrating that this is the result of something that is normal for everyone else,do you know what it might be ?

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  Sweetie, have you talked to a doctor about this?  To me, it is clear it is related to your boyfriend and the sex life you have.  Wishing you luck but if you can't put up with it, I'm not sure this is the guy for you.  Have you had this situation with any other man?