It does help to see that other people are in the same kinds of situations, it doesn't stop the heartbroken feelings but somehow it is giving me some kind of comfort. I heard a very good piece of a few days ago... focus on the people in your life who return your love without the drama....it might help...
I understand how you feel. My heart is broken. My son's wife worked a long time to remove him from our live. She has now managed her goal. He will not talk to us - email, or respond to emai's . I am currently trying to not think of him. How do I do that. Yes I am now angry with him. I have tried everything. Cute e -cards, letters, nothing works. Last week I finally sent a Good Bye I will miss you e-card , with a few short sentences saying I would leave him alone. What was his response - Thank You. This is not the loving child I raised. He had always been loving and caring to his parents. Did we spoil him - I know now we did. I guess in order to keep peace at home he has to keep us out of his life. I have much more I could write,, maybe later. The tears are starting - I am so tired of crying over something I can't fix.
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I just Googled "My Son Hates Me" in the hope that i might find some help for how deeply I am hurting, and viola...lookie here...oh ...I am NOT the only one...Thank you all for your stories...right now I am hurting too much that I just can not write mine yet, though I certainly am relating to most of yours...and I will certainly be able to write my own one day too...
I hope you are all coping with your pain and I hope that some have improved ?
One thing we should all watch out for with these kids is drug use, and I mean drugs supposedly as benign as Marijuana.
First of all, today's marijuana isn't what it was when we were younger, it is much more potent. My son was a very heavy pot smoker and I truly believe that many of his problems are related to pot use.
So true I tried to help my son the only thing that came of it was a kick in the ***. I thought I was trying to help him get out of an abusive relationship but he went back to it. Now he does not speak to me.He lives in the same complex as me and their is no communication with him. What a waste of my time.You are not alone . I am sorry to say.Go on with your life . tz
So true I tried to help my son the only thing that came of it was a kick in the ***. I thought I was trying to help him get out of an abusive relationship but he went back to it. Now he does not speak to me.He lives in the same complex as me and their is no communication with him. What a waste of my time.You are not alone . I am sorry to say.Go on with your life . tz