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[sushil34]

im from india i had unprotected sex with a lady before 3 moths who is having two kids,from next days i got itching on penis but nothin was there on penis skin but my left vein of my penis is always seen n when i masterbate it pains on the vein,i went to doctor he told me to check hiv and vdrl test and gave me a pill  on 1st week it came -ve,but aching was still there....on 76th day i again went to check hiv test and it came -ve.....then on 90 day my body started aching(body aching includes eye also sweatning hands loosening in stool)then on 91st day i again checked hiv test n vdrl both came -ve....im worried very much abt aching n somtime pain in throat.....
##will i be hiv later.... or std???
if i have a conclusive test then why the same symptoms of hiv is happening with me...tell me one thing more i read most of the posts of ur site all people mainly having the same problem as im....why does this happen...???does it sometimes happen after sex??
one more thing i hd been a patient of anxiety....but but not a typical patient...will it lead to wait me for next 3 months
if someone is already a patient of anxiety does it matter to wait for 3 next months
in hiv n std forum doctors told me that it may be due to anxiety....
these symptims have increased my anxiety....u tell me whats this.....what medicine should i take????

[nursegirl6572]

A test at 3 months post an "expsosure" is conclusive.  NO testing needs to be done after 3 months under any circumstance.

Angeldoll---you were NEVER at risk.  HIV is not present in stool.  I'm surprised working at a hospital, you weren't aware of that, or that no one told you.

[sushil34]

thanx but give some tips so that i cancome out with all this....
i m abt to complete 5 month.....should i check???
what is ur suggestion....

[sushil34]

thanx but give some tips so that i cancome out with all this....
i m abt to complete 5 month.....should i check???
what is ur suggestion....

[birdie0907]

Anxiety causes indigestion, and you are very anxious, so it is possible that makes your stool different.

[sushil34]

i just want to know one more thing loosening in stool can also due to anxiety or it is infection????

[sushil34]

brother all symptoms intensity has become lesser than before but loosening in stool is there....sometimes i feel their may be infection in my intestines.....
what u advice gave is really releived me alot...thx....
ur comment plzz
i still think when i scared feel to check hiv again but donot have courage now.....5 months abt to end to my first n last exposure