worried

[sushil34]

im from india i had unprotected sex with a lady before 3 moths who is having two kids,from next days i got itching on penis but nothin was there on penis skin but my left vein of my penis is always seen n when i masterbate it pains on the vein,i went to doctor he told me to check hiv and vdrl test and gave me a pill  on 1st week it came -ve,but aching was still there....on 76th day i again went to check hiv test and it came -ve.....then on 90 day my body started aching(body aching includes eye also sweatning hands loosening in stool)then on 91st day i again checked hiv test n vdrl both came -ve....im worried very much abt aching n somtime pain in throat.....
##will i be hiv later.... or std???
if i have a conclusive test then why the same symptoms of hiv is happening with me...tell me one thing more i read most of the posts of ur site all people mainly having the same problem as im....why does this happen...???does it sometimes happen after sex??
one more thing i hd been a patient of anxiety....but but not a typical patient...will it lead to wait me for next 3 months
if someone is already a patient of anxiety does it matter to wait for 3 next months
in hiv n std forum doctors told me that it may be due to anxiety....
these symptims have increased my anxiety....u tell me whats this.....what medicine should i take????

[sushil34]

thx bro i have started taken anxiety medicines those i was taking a yr back...it relieves me...me really from a week im ok...but somtimes when i feel aches i become worried....i have completed 4 month 10 days but i didnt go to check my status as u said dont waste money....
i hope it will take little time n when ill complete 6 month give me a relief....
am i right????

[oldskool80]

i'm as usual...still struggling with my anxiety problem...
no need retesting....3 mnths (12/13 wks) was conclusive...
you will be wasting your money on the test....
you will get the same result...negative is negative...

like i said...i've done 4 tests out of the 3 mnths (12/13 wks) window period...
19 wks (4mnths+)..25 wks (6 mnths+)..35 wks (8 mnths+) & 37 wks (9 mtnhs+)
the results came back as expected...

trust your own result...
move on buddy....

[sushil34]

where r u??

[sushil34]

how ru now???
im already a patient of anxity 3 month hiv test is -ve now i have copmpleted 4 month should i again go to recheck or leave it
what do u say??

[oldskool80]

I also facing the same situation as yours.
I felt guilty after having unprotected sex with CSW on June 2008 and since then anxiety & panic attack has killing me. I'm very depress of thinking myself contracting with HIV.

SInce then, my body starts showing symptoms.
Sweating, lightheadedness, lack of concentration, tremors, muscle twitches all over body, tingling in hand & feet, headaches, sleep disturbances, fatigue, muscle ache, stiff neck etc.

Done blood test at 6 wks, 19 wks, 25 wks and 35 wks.
All came back negative. STd's test done at 35 weeks also came back negative.
Full body screen done at 6 wks, 19 wks & 25 wks also came back normal...
I quit smoking last Oct 2008 and considered as a hard smoker.
Therefore, my anxiety double up coz nicotine withdrawal also can cause anxiety and other physical symptoms.

It's true that anxiety can cause many symptoms to our body. It's a natural reaction
to our fear and it will take time to come back to normal.
Don't worry, life is too short...as long as our medical test shows we are fine..then we are fine...We need to trust the test result...We need to move on....
I also learn that we need to use the 2nd chance that god gave us and don't make anymore mistake in future...
After 8 months since my anxiety & panic attacked me..i'm still struggling to deal with
the symptoms...
Hope everything will be fine later and we can live our life as before...

See the symptoms of anxiety & panic attack here
http://www.anxietycentre.com/anxiety-symptoms.shtml


God Bless Us...

[sushil34]

god will reward u what u ppl r doing here....
thx may god bless u!!!