My mother who I have lived w/ with out my father being in the picture since I was two, I have not had a mother/daughter relationship for 5 years now. This is sick but here it is: when I broke up w/ my son's father, my mother got with my sons father's father. In other words its my son's grandpa.... anyways one night I went to her job to see her and she asked to get my son for two days... well those were my days off and I wanted to see my son... so i said could you get him another day or so, because I want to spend time w/ him.. well she got pissed and threw my son's father's visitation papers in my face by saying ill take you to court! I wasnt being mean or anything, I just said I wanted to see him those days, she wanted him on.... I just said could you get him after or before those days... then she really broke my heart by saying that so we didnt talk for a while... then I tried talking to her again, but she was just using me for info... after that... my sons father kept on going to court (w/ his dad and my mother) saying those were his parents... she was on their side... anyways..after five years I tried having a mother/daughter relationship w/ her again, and then my son came home from their house, all screwed up.. he is 7yrs old... I didnt know what was wrong w/ him, but come to find out they messed w/ his head some how... he was going to therapy for a couple of times... because he would cry all night until 5am in the morning, he stayed depressed, he told me he wanted his grandma(my mother) to be his mom, and when i was goin to die! So I told my mother, his grandpa, and dad(which they all live together) that I was keeping him for two weeks to get him in routine again for school, since he wasnt doing so well.. (by the way when they took me to court for grandparents rights, even though they got him every weekend, they then were only allowed visitation every second week sat 9am to sun 5pm...) it wasnt even their visitation time...and they got all pissed starting stuff... now my mother treats me like ****... I asked why she was treating me like this and she is saying it is my fault... what should I do?? this is just a brief summary...there is alot more going on..
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