Hi all. I've been reading a lot of the posts about penis injuries and nerve damage and decided to share my story and see if anyone has any helpful advice.
About a year ago I was having sex with my girlfriend and she moved into a position that put a lot of strain on the base of my penis. It was kind of painful, and only lasted for about a minute or two, but I didn't stop it. Since then, I have slowly noticed changes to my sexual function:
I've noticed that my penis is now a lot more "floppy" when flaccid. It doesn't have the support it used to at the base and it hangs straight down. I've done some research and it seems like what happened was that I stretched or completely tore my penile suspensory ligament (PSL). Other symptoms to support my self-diagnosis of a torn PSL is that when I'm erect my penis hangs down rather than standing straight up like it did before.
I also have some pain associated. Sometimes after ejaculation my penis feels "sore." This can last for a few hours but can also last multiple days. It's kind of like an achy pain. I also sometimes have pain while erect. The pain I experience is not always consistent or the same. It varies in frequency, duration, and location in the penis. And sometimes I have no pain at all.
I've also experienced an impact to the quality and frequency of my erections. They vary in their hardness, but are pretty consistently softer than they were before. I also have to pretty much maintain consistent contact/stimulation to keep them. I did go see a urologist who gave me a prescription for Cialis. I took one once and I was able to have a full rock-hard erection, but it still felt unsupported at the base. I also do not really have spontaneous erections anymore throughout the day. The last time I had one was a few months ago.
Another thing I've experienced is some decreased sensitivity in the penis while it is erect. I don't always get morning erections anymore, but when I do I've noticed they're not as hard and I don't feel them as erections. I know that's hard to explain, but they don't have as much sensation. I'm afraid the injury affected the nerves running to my penis.
I feel really alone and helpless about it. It seems doctors don't really have a ton of answers and are quick to just want to treat the erectile dysfunction with prescription drugs. The doctor I first saw told me that the injury and the ED were separate, but I think they're related. But I want to actually fix the problem, or at least know what happened. I'm hoping people can share some success stories or some similar experiences they've had and things they've done to regain their sexual health.
If there are any doctors out here or medical professionals, please reach out. I'll check this often and try to keep the conversation going. Relevant information that might be helpful for understanding the situation. I have a slight natural curve to my penis that is straight up. It has not been a problem or factor before the instance I mentioned above.
I'm also going to update my progress and my medical visits so that you all know what the doctors are saying and what tests are being run to rule out certain things. I've seen a lot of really good people on these forums try to help, and I want to provide as much help as I can to anyone else suffering with uncertainty around these kind of issues.